If you are easily offended, don't read.

Usually, I refrain from making comments about the many blogs that I surf and chance upon (unless it is so out-of-this-world that I have no choice but to discuss it - think www.colinandkero.blogspot.com) And I usually refrain from making comments because I blog myself, and I just think it is not right to say what the others are doing is wrong or silly. But sometimes, it gets the better of me.

The thing about blogs is that it portrays only a one-sided perspective.
That is, when you read about me torturing my poor boyfriend it really amounts to one side of the story. You perhaps would not read about how my boyfriend tortures me. (I hope you get my point). So sometimes, when I read sob stories on blogs, I hate passing judgements on whether that one party is right or wrong. Because to every sob story there is always another side. Regardless how crazily that story is skewed.

This, I assume is the curse of being a Libra.
I always and I really mean always like to listen to both side of the story before telling you how I feel about it. You can be my closest friend, but I still wouldn't think less of your boyfriend/girlfriend despite all the stories told. (There is however one very exceptional case, whereby, listening to the other side of the story will just disintegrate your self-worth and reduce your value to dust. So it would be better not to listen to that fucking bastard's side of the story. NOTHING will ever justify what you have done, you filthy piece of shit. In fact, you are not even WORTH mentioning here on my pristine blog. THAT'S WHY THIS IS IN BRACKETS)

As I was saying, I always like to listen to both sides of a story. And this applies even though it is in a situation which involves me, and that I have been seriously maligned, I repeat, I still prefer to listen to both sides of the story before passing any worthy judgement of my own.
The logic is only simple.
I have brains of my own (and so, maybe you don't. But that doesn't concern me) so I am very much capable of judging for myself if you are right or wrong. Or if the other party's actions are justified or not. I do not need you to tell me what had happened, and what judgements I should be making. I don't like thinking what others think. Thank you very much, but as I've said I am very well capable of making my own judgements.

Therefore, if you cannot think on your own, to me that also means you do not have brains, and that's just sad.

I have digressed, and I apologise.
Perhaps you are caught in circles wondering just what the fuck this is about.
It actually is an agglomeration of things, which I think you should have the faintest idea, if you are a close follower. (haha, I don't mean to say I am the leader, really).

I innocently started this entry to comment on 2 blogs I've been closely reading so far. I wouldn't list it here, cos as I've said I usually try to refrain from commenting on others. And when I do, I don't link them up here and hike up their blog traffic. I only form personal opinions and discuss about them. I honestly mean no harm.

Anyhow, because I have been idle for like 4 months or so, I've been reading blogs alot, on a daily basis. Sometimes, it's just new blogs that I have chanced upon, some are of old friends whom I actually manage to link-hop to. A great many blogs make me laugh, and some make me read back all the way to the very first entry written. (That is quite a feat really, but then again, please be reminded I surf the net from 9am-530pm daily)

The blogs that usually catch my attention are not the particulary well written blogs, with detailed descriptions of their feelings and events around. Instead, believe it or not, the blogs that catch my attention are usually the very loserish ones.

I am a cult-follower of 2 particular blogs (and actually a host of others).
One's female and the other's male.
Sometimes, I wish I could marry those 2 blog owners together. Or at least hope to matchmake them.
The male's blog spells "desperate" in every corner of the blog. When I mean every, it means every single entry.
There is not ONE entry that is not about his "situation" (that is, lack of love/gf) and about how girls are not looking at him, talking to him, befriending him. Every single day, he is fretting about that particular lack-of-love situation, and how he feels it is justified, because he is aging, and still out-of-love.

This entry is so turn-offish I think Siew Lin will balk and murder this guy. (ok, maybe not)
But the way he looks at girls is so demeaning it makes me feel like an object more than a person with brains.
BUT still, day after day, I am going back for more of his "desperate" pleas.

The female blog on the other hand is not showingly desperate. In fact, there is nothing to indicate that she is. But I am a huge read-in-between-the-lines fan. So I like to think between the lines. And I cannot help but conclude that she is. Because simply, her blog is plastered with pictures of herself (think xiaxue-ish, but not that well photoshopped, maybe even worse). And she is always discussing about committing in relationships, the different types of men that ask her out etc and etc.

I cannot even begin to want to talk about what are the things she even talk about.
I am faint with disbelief.

Like I said, I usually refrain from commenting on the blogs of others.
But this 2 made it so difficult, I really couldn't help but do it.

Karma will get the better of me. And well, www.trainwrecks.net did already label me a trainwreck and even linked me to it.
I can only say, everyone is entitled to their own personal point of view, and thus, so am I.

As a blogger (I blog every day ok, so I can call myself a blogger), I am sometimes influenced by the issues of others. So once in awhile, as much as I catch myself indulging in dumbo blogs, I need to read some intelligent and funny ones to think smart, and really start thinking about the bigger issues in life, and not just about the small micro things about mi feelings, mi work, mi life and what-have-yous..

To each his own.

I just like to think deep.

Call me selfish.
But I hate it when others are influenced by MY writing style.
Yes, I know.
So stop reading my blog and starting thinking on your own.

I am not as intelligent as SOME of the blogs I read. But I think I have a more or less unique writing style.
So yes, I think you should get a life of your own, stop forcing me to think of you a loser.